Handling Your Children's Milestone Moments After Divorce
Many divorcing couples forget to realize that even though they are ending their marriage, they will never fully be able to get rid of that other person from their lives if they have children together. Even though you may not be a family, you must keep an ongoing business like relationship for the sake of your children. You may not be husband and wife, but you will be the only mother, father and family your children will ever have. That's why it's imperative to set the standard right during the divorce.
Divorcing couples naturally have a difficult time emotionally adjusting to divorce. If you have, children, you have to be cognizent of how you handle your divorce and relationship with your ex-spouse afterwards, because inadvertently effects your children. It's going to be tough to learn how to handle those difficult situations where you see your ex (and maybe their significant other) at your children's important events. There will be graduations, sporting events, birthday parties, weddings etc. that you both will be want to be a part of. When your child wants to take a family photograph at his or her wedding, they will want both of you in the same picture. Wouldn't it be nice to take family pictures for the sake of your children? This Article talks about one woman's thoughts about handling these akward moments, and the importance of keeping the events positive for the sake of the children.
Categories: Family Law, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Collaborative Divorce